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When no one seems to understand you or care about you

Loneliness is one of the biggest enemies in our lives. I enjoy being alone all the time but at the same time am afraid of being lonely. Today, a voice spoke to my ears and told me lies.

Being alone and being lonely are totally 2 different subjects. Being alone means you are by yourself and no one is around you. But you don't neccessarily feel lonely instead you may even enjoy the moment without any distraction.

We cannot deny however that we all have moments when we aren't neccessarily alone, but feel absolutely lonely.

Being lonely is a state of emotion that you feel no one knows you, understand you or cares for you. It is a feeling that cause you to feel you are the last person people will notice and no one would care even if something significant happens in your life. With all the pains and sorrow in your life, you are all by yourself.

Sometimes you may even feel your family members, best friends or lover have not noticed or understood your needs. And when these things occur, we can feel disappointed or discouraged.

The good news is-JESUS will never fail us, He is forever faithful and always knows your needs and is always right beside you watching over you. The truth is you are never alone and you can overcome loneliness by knowing someone who cares and understands you the most is right beside you.

When you feel lonely, you can always go to Jesus and He will always patiently listen to your needs and comfort you with His Spirit. 


Are you lonely? Do you feel no one knows or cares about you? Do not listen to the lies telling you that you are insignificant anymore. Jesus is right beside you and He is your most trustworthy friend. He is waiting for you to talk to Him now and He is ready to give you the biggest warmth you probably have never experienced before.

Try it now, you don't have to wait to have a best friend in your life.

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